'If You Don't Fight For Yourself, Ain't Nobody Else Gonna Do It For You'

Mar 18, 2016
Originally published on March 18, 2016 8:49 am

For three generations, Tanya James' family has worked the coal mines of West Virginia. James is no different. She began working in the mines in 1979, when only about 1 in 100 coal miners were women — and she didn't begin under the happiest of circumstances.

Her father died when she was 17, leaving her mother to take care of the family. Out of necessity, Tanya's mother took a mining class, and Tanya would go down with her every day — so the instructor invited Tanya to join the class.

Six months later, Tanya was working in the mines as well.

"I know what it feels like to have your mother in the mines. And it could be a little rough," Tanya James, now a mother herself, tells her daughters Michelle Paugh and Trista James on a recent visit with StoryCorps. "I was pretty protective of her, even though I knew she could protect herself. I seen her pick up a guy by the neck," she laughs, "so she was a tough cookie."

From an early age, Tanya James says, she learned an important lesson from her mother: "If you don't fight for yourself, ain't nobody else gonna do it for you."

That attitude helped give her the strength to deal with an environment that wasn't exactly welcoming to women. It was a long-held suspicion among miners that it was bad luck for a woman to even enter a mine. When a woman did enter one, many people figured, it was just to find a man.

And that's to say nothing of the dangers awaiting her in the deeps from the men themselves. In a survey that came out of the 1980 National Conference of Women Coal Miners, it was found that 76 percent of female coal miners had been propositioned by coworkers. Seventeen percent had been physically attacked.

For the first six months on the job, new miners were not allowed to go down alone. At times, James found that mandatory company to be a danger in its own right.

"I remember one time they sent me and this one man back into a part of the mines that nobody goes into. And he started getting a little too friendly," James says. She warned him off, but he kept repeating his advances.

"Well, the third time he approached me, he put his hands on my shoulders, and when he did, I just brought my knee up. I hit him true and hit the mark," she laughs. "And he went down, rolled and cried and threw up. He got the point. He never bothered me again."

Time and again her mother's lesson made its value known.

"You had to make them respect you. You had to prove yourself daily," James says. "But I don't believe in stuff being handed to you. I think you need to work for everything you get. If it ain't worth working for, it ain't worth having, in my opinion."

Tanya James spent more than 20 years in the coal mines, and recently she became the first woman to hold a seat on the international executive board of the United Mine Workers of America.

She's tried to instill her beliefs in her daughters.

"I think you've proved to me more than once that you're not going to let anybody run over you, and I'm proud of you for it," she tells them.

"You're an extraordinary woman," Trista tells her, "and I would like to be one one day, too."

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STEVE INSKEEP, HOST:

It's Friday morning, which is when we hear from StoryCorps. People interview their loved ones, and we get to listen. Today we have story from West Virginia coal country, a story about Tanya James. Her family members have worked as coal miners for three generations, and she started working in the mines in 1979. Very few coal miners were women. Some miners even held a superstition that a woman in a mine was bad luck. In a StoryCorps recording session, she told her daughters why she took the job.

TANYA JAMES: My dad passed away when I was 17. My mother still had to take care of the family, and so she decided to take the mining class. And I'd go down with her every day. The instructor said, well, if you're going to come down here every day, you might as well take the class too. She started in the mines. And six months later, I started in.

MICHELLE PAUGH: When I was younger, I remember watching you. Gary would go to work, wondering if he was going to come back home that night or not.

TANYA JAMES: I understand how you girls felt. I know what it feels like to have your mother in the mines. And it could be a little rough. So I was pretty protective of her, even though I knew she could protect herself. I seen her pick up a guy by the neck (laughter), so she was a tough cookie. And I was taught at an early age from my mother, if you don't fight yourself, ain't nobody else going to do it for you, you know.

When I was hired, a lot of people thought the only reason women wanted in the mines was to find them a man. And for the first six months, you're not allowed to be by yourself. I remember one time, they sent me and this one man back into a part of the mines that nobody goes into. And he started getting a little too friendly. I told him, don't touch me. Well, the third time he approached me, he put his hands on my shoulders, and when he did, I just brought my knee up. I hit him true and hit the mark (laughter). And he went down, rolled and cried and throwed (ph) up. He got the point. He never bothered me again. You had to make them respect you, and you had to prove yourself daily. But I don't believe in stuff being handed to you. I think you need to work for everything you get. If it ain't worth working for, it ain't worth having in my opinion.

PAUGH: Kind of brought us up a little the same way.

TANYA JAMES: I think you've proved to me more than once that you're not going to let anybody run over you, and I'm proud of you for it.

TRISTA JAMES: You're an extraordinary woman, and I would like to be one one day, too.

INSKEEP: Tanya James, with her daughters Michelle Paugh and Trista James at StoryCorps in Morgantown, W. Va. Tanya's story will be archived at the American Folklife Center in the Library of Congress. And as always, you can find the StoryCorps podcast on iTunes and at npr.org. Transcript provided by NPR, Copyright NPR.